Mental Health

My ‘Not-To-Do’ List (that helps me avoid burnout)

burnout not-to-do list
Maybe avoiding burnout is less about the things you do and more about the things you don't.

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Last week we published an article on stress and burnout for Stress Awareness Week (which ends today). In the article, the author, Li-Anne Y, shared tips for avoiding burnout. One of these tips was to create a “not-to-do list.”

Recently, I’ve been dealing with my own case of burnout.

This happens several times a year. I’ll be cruising along just fine and then I’ll begin to notice the early warning signs: falling out of routine, staying up too late, procrastinating, increased anxiety, and exhaustion.

After reading Li-Anne’s article, I decided to create a not-to-do list of my own in hopes that it will help me navigate this overwhelming season.

My Not-To-Do List to Avoid Burnout

1. Prioritize things that don’t matter

If there is a lot going on, I find myself labelling everything as a priority, even when it’s not. When I am falling behind (or feeling like I’m behind) I tend to label everything as a priority and struggle to stay on top of it all. I find it is better to make a list sorted by a priority-scale rather than a column of items that are priority and others that are not. This way, I can simply start at the top and work my way down.

2. Multitask and lose focus

When I’m feeling overwhelmed, my mind races at a mile a minute. When I start tackling things, I often try to tackle everything at once. This results in chaos and even more overwhelm. I find focusing on one or two things at a time is much more manageable and helps me be more productive.

3. Stay up late on my phone

This is one of the hardest habits to change. Being on my phone in bed always results in staying up too late and difficulty sleeping. The cycle continues with staying up late, sleeping in, starting the day late, and feeling behind before I even get started. Setting an alarm on my phone that reminds me to put it away is a good start to breaking the habit.

4. Avoid self-care and ‘me time’

For whatever reason, when I hit the point of burnout, rather than slowing down and prioritizing self-care so I can recover and move forward, I tend to avoid self-care and quiet time. Despite knowing that spending time each day to take care of myself actually boosts my wellbeing (and even my productivity), I still tend to skip this important part of my day, much to my own detriment. I find having a slot of time each morning is the best way to ensure I don’t skip over taking care of myself.

5. Get caught up in the news or what’s on social media

When there is so much going on and I’m feeling overwhelmed and burnt out, the last thing I need is to obsess over the news or lose myself in endless social media scrolling. While it’s important to know what’s going on in the world, the news tends to feed on our anxiety and outrage. When I’m burnt out, this only fuels the flame. The truth is, I can have a general idea of what’s happening in the world without needing daily updates and without following every little detail. Social media is similar. While scrolling through photos of nature and wildlife can be therapeutic, getting caught up in an endless insta-scroll and getting sucked into everyone else’s highlight reels doesn’t help matters. I’m far better off reading a book or relaxing with a favourite show.

6. Over-compensate with caffeine

I’m not a regular coffee drinker; however, recently I discovered some coffee drinks that I do enjoy. Generally, my body can tolerate the caffeine hit, but when the occasional cappuccino turns into a daily Grande specialty drink, my system tends to go into caffeine and sugar overload and I notice my anxiety and overall stress levels increase. I also find too much caffeine affects my sleeping patterns over time. I’ve learned my caffeine tolerance levels and I do much better when I stay within them.

7. Engage in self-criticism

Last, and most importantly, I find a big contributor to burnout is self-criticism and how I label where I’m at. Life gets busy sometimes. Sometimes there is a lot to get done. Sometimes unexpected things arise and it’s difficult to keep up. When I accept this as normal and focus on doing the best I can–one step at a time–the busyness rarely results in burnout. However, if I judge myself, focus on what I’m not doing rather than what I am getting done, and, generally, view the situation as a sign that I am doing something wrong, things get exponentially worse. I owe myself grace and the acknowledgement that doing the best I can really is all that I should expect of myself.

If you are in a season of stress and are feeling overwhelmed or burnt out, I encourage you to make a not-to-do list of your own. Who knows, maybe avoiding burnout is less about the things you do and more about the things you don’t.


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Lauren is the Founder and Editor of Libero. She started Libero in April 2010, when she shared her story about her struggles with an eating disorder and depression. Now Lauren uses her writing and videos to advocate mental health and body positivity. In her spare time, she enjoys makeup artistry, playing Nintendo, and taking selfies with her furbaby, Zoey.

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